How to Connect when Doing A Psychic/Mediumship Reading
What do we mean when we say the word ‘Connect’?
To connect with another person when reading for them is to simply connect with their Energy and Link with them to enable you to conduct a Reading for them.
We are all Energy. Think of the Radio, we listen to the Radio and its rather amazing how it works when you think about it. The Radio waves are Definitely there but are invisible to the Naked Eye. The Waves are delivered and connect with the Transmitter.
Reasons we may not be able to Connect
As a Psychic or Medium we are the Transmitter. Our energy needs to be on high to be able to connect with our Client/Recipient. When the Mediums/Psychic’s Energy is Low they may not be able to connect to the best of their ability. Times of Illness, Tiredness, Fatigue the Medium/Psychic needs to listen to their body and rest. It is at these times we need to re-charge our batteries and restore our Energy & Well being.
We do need to take extra special care of ourselves when we work with the Energies to enable us to give our best to our clients and ourselves. Diet and Exercise are an important factor to consider when we are Light workers. A pure Diet of lots of Fresh Fruit and Vegetables & Spring Water to keep our system as pure as possible is Beneficial. Exercise which works with the Breath such as Yoga will also be a huge aid to our work. I always find that the days when I do Yoga my Connection is far better because I am working with the Breath & Energising the Mind & Body.
Try to be conscious of the Environment in which you work too. A Negative Environment will drain you of Vitality and affect your work & connection to your Recipient.
Ways of Connecting with the Recipient
I will share my method of Connecting with My Recipient. We may all have different ways which work for us, if your way is working for you please do continue to use that Method as I strongly believe there is no Right or Wrong way of doing this, simply find the Method which works for you and apply that.
I will sit quietly with my Client and imagine my Energy being Thrown over them, I also imagine my Solar Plexus & Third Eye connecting to them. That’s it, that is all I do and it really is that simple.
When I am on Stage doing a Demonstration Of Mediumship the method is similar, I simply throw my energy over the Audience to connect with them. When you find your Recipient for your Contact the link will very naturally strengthen anyway so you do not do need to do anything extra there.
What to do if you cannot Connect.
If you cannot connect to your client/recipient do be honest with them. There is nothing worse for both you and your client if you are trying to connect but are simply not feeling it. I always begin a Reading by giving a few details about the Clients Current Situation and follow with “Do you understand?” or “Does that make sense to you?” By asking those questions you can determine whether or not you have a good link with you Recipient.
There may be may reasons why we may not be able to connect with our Recipient, some I have mentioned above, Sometimes there is no Rhyme or Reason why this happens. Maybe your Client does not really need a Reading at this time, Maybe you are not the right Psychic/Medium for them, it could be an Energy thing, maybe your Energy is not compatible. Sometimes clients can Block you without realising. Any reading whether it is a Psychic or Mediumship Reading or a combination of both should always be a three way street. We require the energy form the Spirit or Spirit Guide, The Energy of the Psychic/ Medium and the Energy of the Recipient.
When I work on Stage doing Demonstrations of Mediumship I let the Audience know that it is a Three Way Street, I inform them that we need their Voice to be able to get a Great Connection. When I connect with a member of the Audience and I am working with their Loved one in Spirit they need to give me their Voice, in the way of Yes & Nos, that is all I need from them, but when they will not speak up or do not speak at all the link will be weaker or just not possible to work with.
If this happens to you do not allow it to deter you in any way shape or form. Simply understand that it is just the way it is sometimes, after all we are working with such a delicate source of Energy which requires the correct Environments and Conditions to work effectively. When this happens to me I accept the situation. I very gently explain to the Client what has happened and Reassure them so they do not take it personally. I say that I may not the Medium/Psychic for them. I will recommend someone else who I know is Professional and Someone I Can Trust to Deliver an Accurate and Honest Reading. Of course there will no charge, and if they have paid upfront I will refund the fee back to them.
I hope this has been of some Help and Shed some Light on the Subject of Connection.